Friday, 16 March 2012

Mindset Reprogramming For Success

Hari ini penulis menyempatkan diri untuk hadir pada sebuah acara seminar yang sponsori oleh seksi PSE katedral Bandung bekerjasama dengan Bapak Paulus Winarto. Profil lengkap mengenai Bapak Paulus winarto bisa anda kunjungi websitenya dengan alamat: 
Topik yang dibawakan cukup menarik yaitu: "MINDSET REPROGRAMMING FOR SUCCESS". Seminar ini sendiri menghadirkan dua orang pembicara yakni Bapak Paulus sendiri dan F.X. Fredi. Menurut Bapak Paulus Mindset adalah serangkaian pola pikir yang mengubah perilaku seseorang. Pada pemaparannya, beliau tak lupa mengutip buku karangan John C.Maxwell yang berjudul " Thinking For a Change" dimana mengolongkan manusia ke dalam tiga kelompok:
  • Unsuccessful People focus their thinking on Survival
  • Average people focus their thinking on Maintenance
  • Successful people focus their thinking on progress
Setelah sesi Pak Paulus selesai, acara dilanjutkan dengan sesi kedua dengan pembicara F.X Fredi, seorang motivator dan enterpreneur. Pada pembahasannya Fredi mengolongkan mindset menjadi dua bagian:
  1. Kepercayaan-kepercayaan yang mempengaruhi sikap seseorang
  2. Sikap mental tertentu/ watak yang menentukan respons dan pemaknaan seseorang terhadap suatu situasi.
Selain itu, Fredi juga membahas banyak hal terutama yang berhubungan dengan mindset reprogramming. Hal-hal penting yang mungkin penulis bisa rangkum dari pembahasan Fredi sebagai berikut:
Pikiran ------> Perkataan------>Tindakan------>kebiasaan------>karakter------>Nasib

Pikiran kita dapat digolongkan menjadi:
  1. Pikiran negatif
  2. Pikiran positif
Pada proses ini  semua peserta di suruh untuk membuat 2 kolom kiri dan kanan. Kolom kiri diisi dengan semua pikiran negatif yang selama ini selalu menghantui kita sedangkan kolom kanan berisi pikiran positif yang ingin kita capai. Sedangkan pada bagian tindakan, menurut Fredi tindakan kita harus mengandung 4 hal:
  1. Harus membuat kita merasa baik
  2.  Membuat kita menjadi lebih baik
  3. Membuat baik buat orang banyak
  4. Baik untuk Tuhan
Jadi kalau kita ingin ada perubahan dalam hidup, maka hal penting yang perlu kita lakukan adalah dengan mengubah mindset kita, dari yang negatif ke yang positif dan dari pesimis menjadi optimis karena hanya dengan cara demikian kita akan menemukan kesuksesan dalam hidup. 
"SELAMAT MENJADI ORANG YANG SUKSES YA"





2 comments:

Emilio Fernandez said...

Good morning how are you?
My name is Emilio, I am a Spanish boy and I live in a town near to Madrid. I am a very interested person in knowing things so different as the culture, the way of life of the inhabitants of our planet, the fauna, the flora, and the landscapes of all the countries of the world etc. in summary, I am a person that enjoys traveling, learning and respecting people's diversity from all over the world.
I would love to travel and meet in person all the aspects above mentioned, but unfortunately as this is very expensive and my purchasing power is quite small, so I devised a way to travel with the imagination in every corner of our planet. A few years ago I started a collection of used stamps because trough them, you can see pictures about fauna, flora, monuments, landscapes etc. from all the countries. As every day is more and more difficult to get stamps, some years ago I started a new collection in order to get traditional letters addressed to me in which my goal was to get at least 1 letter from each country in the world. This modest goal is feasible to reach in the most part of countries, but unfortunately it’s impossible to achieve in other various territories for several reasons, either because they are countries at war, either because they are countries with extreme poverty or because for whatever reason the postal system is not functioning properly.
For all this I would ask you one small favour:
Would you be so kind as to send me a letter by traditional mail from Timor Leste? I understand perfectly that you think that your blog is not the appropriate place to ask this, and even, is very probably that you ignore my letter, but I would call your attention to the difficulty involved in getting a letter from that country, and also I don’t know anyone neither where to write in Timor Leste in order to increase my collection. a letter for me is like a little souvenir, like if I have had visited that territory with my imagination and at same time, the arrival of the letters from a country is a sign of peace and normality and an original way to promote a country in the world. My postal address is the following one:
Emilio Fernandez Esteban
Avenida Juan de la Cierva, 44
28903 Getafe (Madrid)
Spain
If you wish, you can visit my blog www.cartasenmibuzon.blogspot.com where you can see the pictures of all the letters that I have received from whole World.
Finally I would like to thank the attention given to this letter, and whether you can help me or not, I send my best wishes for peace, health and happiness for you, your family and all your dear beings.

Yours Sincerely

Lov3 Timor L3st3 said...

Dear EMilio, Thanks a lot for leaving a comments in my blog. Temporary it's not possible for me to send you a letter via traditional mail system in Timor Leste, because now i'm in Indonesia for continue my study. But i will take a note about your requested. Once, finishing my study i will try to sending it to you.
Keep in touch and Bom Trabalho.

Paul